Your Life Your Choice

Recently i read book "Who Moved My Cheese" by Dr. Spencer Johnson.

I like that book as its gives a Simple ways for How to deal with Problems, Change and Difficult Situation.

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From Book: Who Moved My Cheese

Just Imagine ..

Cheese : Imagine Cheese as Happiness / Success , it may be at Relationship, at Work, at Personnel Level, Any thing.

Maze: Its an unknown Journey, problems to find the Cheese (Happiness and Success).

And 4 Characters:

2 Mice (Scurry And Sniff) : Very small in nature and very simple. Sniff just realize the change or sniff, and Scurry just execute an Action And think about Result.

2 Small People( Hem And Haw) : Small in nature, but more intelligent and Smarter than mice.

Story goes like that ..

All 4, Mice and Little People, after little struggle and after going through Maze, all finds the Cheese let say "Cheese Station C". (for all 4 it may taste different). And daily they are eating and enjoying there cheese. And they are very satisfied. And little peoples are very satisfied with the achievement, they feels that after a struggle finally they find there cheese and this cheese is enough for their life.

Soon, Little Mice realizes that Cheese is getting reduce day by day and little people are very relaxed and enjoying cheese daily.

But one day,

When little Mice Notice, that there is no more cheese left at cheese station, So Sniff just sniff the New Cheese and Scurry acted and they go out into Maze to find New Cheese.

And once little people reached to Cheese Station C, they noticed that there is no more cheese left, and as they are no Prepared for that situation, they getting angered, shouted , Screamed "who taken our cheese", "No Cheese", "No Cheese". Little people get shocked and they are not able to understand why it happen to them and its not Fair, and they are just over analyzing the situation and waited there at Station C and with little hope expecting that soon they will put back Cheese at Station C.

Little people "Hem and Haw" daily coming and searching for Cheese at Station C and slowly slowly getting frustrated and stressed as they are not able to find Cheese at Station C. Haw want to go out to Maze to find new Cheese but Hem is not interested to go out to Maze as Hem feels that its an unknown place and they may face alot of trouble.

But soon Haw came out from "Cheese Station C " to Maze for finding New Cheese. And Haw is trying hard to find new cheese and Analyzing his decisions what he loose in Not acting fast and by not realizing the change early.

Now little mice find a New Big Cheese Station "Cheese Station N", and they are more happy now, than compared to last time.

And Haw is still searching for New Cheese and trying hard and one day he Found Cheese Station N and old friends, And Haw enjoyed the new Cheese and new Taste .

And Hem is still waiting at Cheese Station C, for expecting that thing will be improved automatically one day And he will get the same Cheese again.

So simple message what we will "Loose" or "Gain" If we don't sense the change timely and Act accordingly. Only one thing is permanent in this world that is "CHANGE".

"Smell the Change Time To Time
And Prepare Yourself Accordingly"


"The Quicker let you go of old cheese
The Sooner you can Enjoy new Cheese"


"Be Ready to Change Quickly
And Enjoy it Again and Again"


"Don't Afraid , Over Analyze And Fear
Believe on your Capabilities and Start Again"


So read the book again and again, surely every time you will get new thing.
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Once i read the book, i just trying to put my self in 1 of 4 Characters. And trying to Improve my way of living. Better Late Than Never.

Kavita ..

Ek Kavita Movie Udaan Se
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Jo lehron se aage nazar dekh paati
toh tum jaan lete main kya sochta hoon,

Wo aawaz tumko bhi jo bhed jaati
toh tum jaan lete main kya sochta hoon.

Zid ka tumhare jo parda sarakta
toh khidkiyon se aage bhi tum dekh paate,

Aankhon se aadaton ki jo palken hatate
toh tum jaan lete main kya sochta hoon.

Meri tarah khud par hota zara bharosa
toh kuchh door tum bhi saath-saath aate,

Rang meri aankhon ka baant-te zara sa
toh kuchh door tum bhi saath-saath aate,

Nasha aasmaan ka jo choomta tumhe bhi,
hasraten tumhari naya janm paatin,

Khud doosre janam mein meri
udaan chhoone kuchh door tum bhi saath-saath aate.

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This Poem is from Hindi movie Udaan.

Udaan is a very simple movie with a very good message. Its a story of a Boy Rohan and His dad Ronit Roy who lives in Jamshedpur and he is a Businessman. Rohan expelled from his school after a incident, and he rejoins with his family mainly a Father and a younger half brother after 8 years. Rohan was not aware of that, that he has a younger brother as Rohan father did 2nd marriage.

Ronit Roy, Rohan's father he is a business man, and he is little different or frustrated guy.

And once Rohan joins his family back, his father and his nature doesn't match at all, His father is like a Ruler, who doesn't listen other views and forced his views to others. Rohan wants to become a writer, but his father doesn't bother to see his writing at all, and put him in engg college. He made some rules to live at his home and Rohan and his brother have to follow those else leave the home no choice.

Rohan bear his father torture and also torture on his younger brother, and saturation point reached and he finally left his father home and taken his younger brother .

So its a nice script and well directed movie.

"Don't force your thoughts on others, try to convince by putting your points and by listening other views."